Valentine’s Day is such a tricky holiday. If you’ve just started dating, you want your someone special to think you’re thoughtful, but not overeager. If you’ve been together forever, it’s easy to fall back on the tried-and-true clichés of roses or chocolate.

We’ve spent a lot of time thinking about this problem at StyleFeeder, and we think we’ve come up with a solution to this lack of creativity: our Valentine Gift Finder. Just enter your Valentine’s age, gender and interests, and we’ll start recommending products that might just hit his or her sweet spot! The more products you rate, the better our recommendations should get.

If you’re still stuck, we’ve compiled a list of some suggestions to get you thinking. Here’s one of my favorite ideas, unearthed by our very own Shoe Addict: a digital mix tape that allows you to hand a mix of your best mash songs to your intended on a USB drive:

So we know you’ll be getting your sweetie’s gift right this year. But we’d like to make up for the sins of ex’s past. So share your worst Valentine horror story…just email us with all the juicy details about the worst V-day gift you ever received. We’ll make sure you get what you really want this year, by picking the StyleFeeder with the best worst story and buying the unlucky-in-love winner something off their StyleFeed!